So I recongize there are problems with saying no to a guy.
1) It wounds his self-esteem.
2) It makes you seem like a jerk.
3) It deters other guys from asking you out.
4) It makes him belive he is an unattractive person which is an unfair assumption of both parties
When what you're really thinking is...
1) I am so freakin' busy this weekend
2) I truly do not see this going anywhere and would feel guilty having him spend money on me.
3) We have very little in common.
Oh and one more reason why saying no sucks...
It makes people judge your sexual orientation. Which again is unfair to EVERYONE. Not just the two parties involved.
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